Chapter 20 - The cost of waiting
The medical bills arrived before sentencing.
Hospital charges were enormous on paper.
Insurance negotiated.
Our out-of-pocket responsibility after deductible and coinsurance:
Around $11,800.
Michael’s health plan still covered Emily.
Could I demand he pay all?
Family court could allocate extraordinary medical expenses.
Given conviction, Rachel argued Michael should bear majority.
His lawyer argued:
Surgery may have been needed even with prompt care.
True.
Then Dr. Shah provided a limited causation statement:
Earlier emergency evaluation likely would have reduced duration of untreated contamination/infection risk.
Could not state surgery would have been avoided.
So settlement:
Michael paid 75% of extraordinary out-of-pocket medical expenses tied to incident.
I paid 25%.
Why not 100?
Avoid further litigation.
Insurance remained through COBRA or employer transition? Michael lost job. My employer plan could add Emily at qualifying event.
We moved coverage to mine.
No gap.
Then civil lawsuit?
Could Emily sue father for injury?
Potentially.
I consulted counsel.
Damages:
Pain.
Medical expense.
Scarring.
Emotional harm.
But insurance coverage for intentional family conduct uncertain.
Litigation could consume years.
Emily said:
“No.”
At fifteen, her view mattered though legal guardian decides.
I declined separate civil suit for now, preserving only what law allowed.
Not every harm needs another case.
Then school.
Emily returned full-time.
She quit soccer.
Joined yearbook.
Jenna joined too.
Normal shift.
Then her scar.
About four centimeters near lower abdomen plus laparoscopic marks.
She hated locker room.
School allowed private changing space temporarily.
Not because shame should win forever.
Because healing can be gradual.
Then Michael’s sentencing memorandum.
Defense asked:
Community control/probation.
No prison.
Reasons:
First offense.
Completed programs.
No intent for serious harm.
Medical care sought initially.
Strong employment history.
Prosecution asked:
Meaningful custodial sentence.
Why?
Victim minor.
Repeated concealment after explicit medical recommendation.
Manipulation of child into secrecy.
Resulting serious medical risk.
Not years-long maximal punishment.
Then Emily chose to submit statement but not appear.
Good.
Her statement:
I don’t think my dad wanted me to almost die. I think he wanted not to get in trouble, and that mattered more to him than whether I was safe.
That sentence became the case.
Then:
I don’t want him punished forever. I want him to stop saying his fear was the same thing as protecting me.
No theatrical hate.
Then sentencing date.
Three weeks.
Family court waited.
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Divorce waited.
Everything still active.
