Chapter 15 - The joint credit cards

Another $24,700 of inheritance money went toward joint credit cards.
This was the grayest category.
Groceries.
Travel.
Furniture.
Restaurant meals.
David’s business meals.
Margaret’s expenses.
Our family expenses.
If David had told me:
We are carrying twenty-five thousand dollars in revolving debt and I want to use inheritance to eliminate it,
I might have agreed to some.
Maybe all.
But he did not ask.
He paid the cards.
Then told me the account balance had fallen because of market movement.
That lie mattered.
He later said he was embarrassed by debt.
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I understood embarrassment.
I did not understand using it as permission.