Chapter 14 - Claire’s resentment had a number

Claire’s finances were not collapsing.
Her motive was different.
She had tracked lifetime distributions.
I did not know.
A spreadsheet on her laptop listed:
Victor approximate family support.
Claire approximate family support.
Eli approximate family support.
Then:
“Expected inheritance differential.”
She had estimated future trust value at $9 million.
Assumed Victor would receive 45 percent.
Claire 45.
Eli 10 because “he doesn’t want it.”
No document said that.
She had created a moral allocation.
Why ten for Eli?
Because he declined monthly distributions.
In Claire’s mind:
If you reject family money, you lose the right to later equality.
She told Victor in a message:
Mom will leave Eli more because she feels sorry for him. We need the POA before she starts changing things.
Victor:
Trust doesn’t work like that.
Claire:
You don’t know what she can change.
Ironically, Claire understood more than Victor.
I did hold a limited power of appointment over part of the remainder.
Not the entire trust.
Could I favor Eli?
Within certain bounds, potentially.
Had I?
No.
At that time my estate plan remained broadly equal among descendants, with separate charitable allocations.
Claire’s fear was imagined.
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Then her conduct made the fear relevant.
That was tragic.