Chapter 19 - Margaret loses her marriage
Robert and Margaret divorced sixteen months after Thanksgiving.
No cinematic trial.
Mediation.
Financial disclosures.
A house appraisal.
Retirement accounts.
Savings.
The marital home was sold because neither wanted to buy the other out at the appraised value.
Margaret moved into a two-bedroom condo.
Robert moved closer to Daniel.
No secret fortune.
No punitive trust.
Thirty-eight years of marriage produced ordinary assets and complicated grief.
Margaret called me once after the decree.
Not to blame.
That surprised me.
“I thought he’d come back.”
I said nothing.
“He always came back.”
There.
After arguments.
After sleeping in guest rooms.
After long drives.
After weeks of emotional distance.
Robert had always returned to the structure.
Until he did not.
Margaret said:
“He says Thanksgiving wasn’t the reason.”
“I believe him.”
“That makes it worse.”
I understood.
One terrible event can be repaired.
A pattern asks a harder question.
Who have we been for years?
She whispered:
“I keep thinking if I hadn’t done the bowl…”
I said:
“Then maybe another moment would have come later.”
She started crying.
I did not comfort her.
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I did not punish her either.
We sat on the phone with the truth.
