Chapter 11 - WHY DANA CAME TO USWe hired Dana through recommendation.

Not agency.
My former coworker knew a family who knew a family.
The reference we called was positive.
Real.
Dana had cared for their school-age twins.
No problems.
That mattered.
Abusive caregivers are not necessarily abusive every minute with every child.
Patterns change with stress.
Age.
Control.
Opportunity.
Dana joined us when Ivy was six months old.
At first, wonderful.
She folded laundry without being asked.
Remembered nap schedules.
Sent photos.
Made freezer meals when my morning sickness started.
When I became pregnant again, she volunteered extra hours.
I trusted her more because she had been useful.
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Usefulness is not the same as safety.
I learned that too late.
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