Chapter 25 - LINDA AS GRANDMOTHERTwo years later, Linda asked for structured contact.

Molly wanted to see her.
Owen was three and knew her mostly from supervised family visits.
The therapist asked Molly:
“What would make you feel safe?”
She said:
“Grandma doesn’t touch medicine.”
Linda agreed.
At the first visit, Owen developed a runny nose.
Linda looked toward me.
Years earlier she would have said:
“He needs something.”
This time:
“Do you want me to do anything?”
“No.”
“Okay.”
Tiny.
But I noticed.
Later Molly dropped a chewable vitamin on the floor.
Linda picked it up.
Then handed it to me.
Not Molly.
Me.
Boundaries sometimes return through ordinary movements.
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I did not call that forgiveness.
I called it evidence of learning.