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Chapter 11 - Olivia starts flinching

For several weeks Olivia flinched when adults moved quickly near her face.

Not every time.

Enough.

At bedtime she began touching her nose and saying:

“Grandma bad hand.”

Two years old.

Language still developing.

We brought her to a child therapist who worked primarily through play and parent coaching.

No dramatic diagnosis.

No lifelong prediction.

The therapist told us:

“Do not make Sarah the center of every conversation.”

We were.

We stopped.

We also stopped asking Olivia:

“Did Grandma scare you?”

Instead we responded when Olivia raised it.

“Grandma hit you. That was wrong.”

Simple.

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No leading.

No moral essay.

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